Rocketsixgurl, 41

I am outgoing, spontaneous, fun, curvy, smiley, cuddly, affectionate, -------/sexual, smart, generous, caring, tomboyish (but I have my femininity well intact thank you!, lol), expressive, artistic, kissable, loving, happy, always laughing, energetic, laid-back, optimistic,... and the list goes on. I don't have a big ego, I do have a big heart that I'd like to give to someone someday.
I don't want to change someone or have them try to change me; instead, I'd rather grow together with someone. I am not up for "casual" encounters.
I would like to meet someone that is accepting, affectionate, and sees my own displays of affection and care as just that, not needy-ness. I'm an independant woman and I would appreciate an independant man that would work well with me in life as my best friend, love and lover. Sounds tres cheezy,... but whatever... at this point, I'm just being honest. I'm tired of wasting my time on perverts that want one thing (and don't get it), and men that think they want something but don't actually know what.
I know what I want, and I'm ambitious.