Redsonja2008, 55

I consider myself to be a pretty, fun-loving redhead who loves people and life. I am a student of people and culture, working on my PhD in Clinical Psychology. I firmly believe that the key to long life is to be a student of life as long as I shall live and to live life as if each day were my last. Optimism is my credo, I see the world as full of cherries. In my life I have endured much discrimination as a bigger woman and I see this as the last "allowed" target of racism by the shallow uninformed people in the world. Stereotypes label BBWs but I am an individual who wants to be seen by others on her own merits and not what someone else deems I should be. I am proud of my accomplishments and I acknowledge my unique traits that are waiting for only that special man to discover and appreciate. I am hoping to find some friends here and maybe the right one for me will find me. I have a lot to offer, I am a good listener, an active woman who likes to go hiking and swimming so I hope to contact with a man with the same interests as me. I do love good music, great books of all venues, and love to be outdoors. Are you a fisherman? I love to fish and find the quiet of this activity calming to me. Camping, yes the outdoors is a great place to get to know both yourself and your partner. I am equally happy in the big city with lots of things to do and places to explore. Eventually, I might find a serious relationship appealing but for now I would rather date casually and grow to be good friends. From there....anything is possible!