Redhotphatgirl, 54

Yes, I am single...Here's some of what I look for in a mate: I get asked often what is my ideal mate and it's very hard to narrow down. I like to be with someone who can carry on a conversation that is both equally engaging and educated. I look for someone with a sense of style and keeps themselves up to date.( a man in a suit is such a turn on) I love carmel colored skin but get surprised from time to time. I get aroused by a man that keeps himself physically fit. Attention to details like someone who smells terrific and feels good when touched. I love a man that pays attention to pleasing me with the simpler things in life like a phone call and tender gestures. I am a woman who like to enjoys life so a man with a job is important. I am a woman that enjoys a good laugh so humor is a great asset. Socially I enjoy being in a public setting and need someone doesn't feel threatened by my ability to attract a crowd. Someone who likes to dance and has a desire to do it often. I am a touchy, feely person that craves to be touched and pout when I'm neglected. I love a man 25-45 that is athletic and know what he likes when it comes to a woman. I prefer black men but others catch my attention from time to time. I am looking for someone that wants to spend time having some fun. NO MARRIED MEN! I want someone without strings... TURN-OFFs : ungroomed, unkept, uneducated, jobless, and wants me to be there mama... no teeth, no manners, no motivation, flashy, money driven, selfish, liers, men that are running away from responsibility, married men... TURN-On’s: Well groomed, well dressed, educated, mature, and a sense of humor. Weaknesses: Neck Kisses, cuddling, ---, and a man with strong hands…love strong hands.. Man with confidence, a career, goal oriented, enjoys the simple indulgences in life,