I'm 35, old fashioned, artsy, crafty, generally resourceful and able to enjoy both the finer and the simple things in life. I enjoy many things and am usually open minded to trying new things (if I haven't before or they sound fun). I can enjoy a day in jeans playing the tourist in a nearby (or far away) town. I can also enjoy a fancy night on the town with the theater and fine dining. I like to do things but, I also know that isn't always possible. So, I also enjoy days at home and relaxing as well. Movies, home cooked meals, BBQ with friends, board games, cards, or a day at the lake with a picnic are always fun. I'm pretty easy going usually. Just don't neglect my artistic side.
I am looking for someone who shares some of my interests but can also bring some of their own to the table. Someone who can really share life with me as a friend and a romantic partner. Romance doesn't happen overnight though. I want someone who is truly interested in getting to know me and my many sides but can also open up about themselves and share life with me as well.
Ideally I would meet someone who is chivalrous, nurturing, and who shares my spiritual beliefs. Someone who is ambitious but balanced and who is seeking a true partner in life. Kudos if they are family oriented and willing to make an effort to be part of a family and create unique traditions.
Final thing you should know about me. Yes, I'm a plus size girl. I'm likely always going to be a plus sized girl. I like my curves and I don't apologize for them. Take me as I am. That being said, I am working to improve my health. That means clocking time at the gym and trying to lead a more active lifestyle and eat healthier. Someone supportive and encouraging of that, who is taking part in that with me, is always a plus. No one is perfect but, I think we should always be striving to make our lives better. That includes our quality of life.
Pensandquills, 46
currently offlineGilmer, TX, USA
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About Me
Gender
Female
Orientation
Bisexual
Height
5'07"
Weight
380 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
baking, bible study, board games, cooking & recipes, cosplay, cruises, dancing, history, movies, music, painting, photography, reading, sewing, shopping, travel, writing
Body Type
fat and proud, overweight, thick
Movies
animation, classics, drama, fantasy, horror, murder mysteries, romance, romantic comedy, sci-fi
Orientation
bisexual
Eye Color
hazel
Hair Color
light brown
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Relationship
single
Have Kids
no - definitely want them though, no - open to adoption
Education Level
some college
Profession
Clerical / Administrative, Journalist / Writer, Sales / Marketing, Transportation / Trucking
Income level
that's private
Do you smoke?
no - will not date a smoker
Do you drink?
socially
I currently live
with parents, with roommate(s)
Socially, I am
better in small groups, shy at first, but warm up quickly
Political Views
conservative
Food Related
Caribbean, Chinese, Comfort, Eat Out Frequently, Fast Food, Fine Dining, Italian, Japanese, Mediterranean, Mexican, Vegetarian
Personality
artistic, coffeeholic, conservative, fun loving, hipster, intellectual, loner, playa hater, preppy, romantic, thrifty
Individuality
artist, ghost hunter, paranormal believer, tattoos
Religious Views
Christian
I'm looking for
conversation, dating, friends only, miss right, miss right now, mr. right, mr. right now, penpal, relationship, romance, soulmate, the yin to my yang, travel companion
My Sign
capricorn : dec. 22-jan. 19, i was born in december
Pets
Cat, Dog
Gender
Female
Music
Post Rock, Progressive Rock, Reggae, Relaxation and Meditation, Rock, Alternative Rock, Celtic, Chamber, Choir, Christian Rock, Classical, Country, Dance, Folk, Hard Rock, House, Jazz, Jazz-Fusion, Karaoke, Opera, Pop
Hair Style
bob cut, layered, ponytail, straight
Fitness & Sports
aerobics, archery, hiking, swimming, walking, working out
Health Related
holistic treatment, homeopathy
Languages
English
Looking for
Hobbies & Interests
baking, bible study, board games, chess, computers, cooking & recipes, cosplay, coupon clipping, cruises, dancing, fishing, history, horseback riding, internet, movies, music, painting, photography, puzzles and brain teasers, reading, robotics, science, shopping, target practice, travel, wine tasting, writing
Their Body Type
a few extra pounds, athletic, average, bodybuilder, fat and proud, fit, large, overweight, pleasantly plump, skinny, slender, slim, supermodel, thick, voluptuous
Movies
action, animation, classics, drama, fantasy, horror, murder mysteries, psychological thrillers, romance, romantic comedy, sci-fi
Orientation
heteroflexible, straight
Their Ethnicity
Caucasian, Mixed Race
Relationship
divorced, single, single - never married, widowed
Have Kids
no - definitely want them though, no - maybe with the right person, no - open to adoption, yes, yes - grown and out of the house, yes - single parent home
Their Education Level
Bachelor's Degree, college grad, currently in college, Doctorate, graduate school, high school grad, Master's Degree, post-Graduate, some college
Income level
$100,000+, $25,000-$50,000, $50,000-$100,000
Do they smoke?
no - will not date a smoker
Do they drink?
no, socially
They currently live
alone, family and friends visit often, on a pirate ship, with kids, with parents, with pets, with roommate(s)
Socially, they are
better in small groups, shy at first, but warm up quickly
Political Views
conservative, not interested in politics
Food Related
Caribbean, Carnivore, Chinese, Chocoholic, Comfort, Diet Every Now & Then, Eat Out Frequently, Fast Food, Fine Dining, Italian, Japanese, Mediterranean, Mexican, Vegetarian
Personality
artistic, coffeeholic, conservative, fun loving, geek, hipster, intellectual, lover, nerd, pirate, preppy, professional, romantic
Religious Views
Catholic, Christian, Not Religious, but Spiritual
They are looking for
conversation, dating, friends only, miss right, penpal, relationship, romance, soulmate, the yin to my yang, travel companion
Pets
Cat, Cats, Dog, Dogs, Fish, Small Furry Creature
Gender
Female, Male
Music
Country, Dance, Folk, Gospel, Hard Rock, Jazz, Jazz-Fusion, Karaoke, Opera, Pop, Relaxation and Meditation, Rock, Alternative Rock, Celtic, Chamber, Choir, Christian Rock, Classical
Fitness & Sports
dancing, diving, fencing, gymnastics, hiking, jogging, marathon, martial arts, rowing, running, snorkeling, surfing, swimming, tai chi, tennis, volleyball, walking, weightlifting, working out, yoga, archery, basketball, bodybuilding, bowling
Languages
English
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