Pearshapedpyt, 37

I don't ask for much in life, or from a man for that matter. Though it may be challenging for some, a real man will find these guild lines simple.
1. Intelligent/gainful conversation is a MUST - I don't expect a man to use 17 syllable words, but I would like to carry on meaningful conversation, as I feel it opens the door to true intimacy.
2. Must not use drugs - from past experience, drugs cause too many issues when the one using them cannot have them.
3. Must be cultured in something besides farming. I have to admit, I am more so turned on by black men, and it is because the are more cultured than your every day small town red neck.
4. Must know how to make love. A real man knows the difference between ****ing and true intimacy.
5. Must be loyal.
6. Must have a good set of morals.
7. Must know how to have fun when the time is right.

See? That isn't much to ask.

Some of my hobbies include, digital design such as photoshop and other imaging programs. I also enjoy sports, outdoors, and most defiantly music. My favorite genre of music is R&B. I have a weakness for the smooth love making music such as H-town, Jodeci, Alicia Keys, Charlie Wilson, and many many others.

This is the type of man that he will be when I do settle down again.

He wont be dependent upon anything except me for a little R&R. He will work. He will know how to make me laugh, and know just when to do it. He will know how to have fun, and know the appropriate time to do it. He will know is priorities, and he will see no one but me.