Onewhodreams, 56

Fun, Smart, Wine-drinking, Book Nerd Seeks Same OK, no. I don't actually weigh 300 pounds but the truth is I'm looking for someone who didn't care if I did. Here's the straight-up-honest scoop ... My body is less than perfect and I don't expect yours to be either. No flame still burns in my heart for an ex-mate and I would appreciate it if your old flames were snuffed as well -- metaphorically, not literally (and if you have to look up the word "metaphorically" I am probably not the girl for you). I will not (and would expect that you not) play head games, create drama, or say anything at any point that isn't straight-up honest. IN RETURN FOR SAME (sorry to shout but I didn't want you to miss that part!), I will make you laugh, make you think, listen to what you say and truly care about it, and maybe ... just maybe ... we can find a really cool connection. I offer and am looking for: humor (obviously), intelligence, sarcasm (ya think?), a sense of fun and adventure, integrity, compassion, mental health, a promise to put into a relationship twice as much as I get out of it, and a true desire for a MUTUAL relationship we are both better off for having, and the ability to reach the end of this posting without running in the other direction.

To everyone who reads this, whether you respond to it or not, I wish you the best of luck in finding love and happiness with someone who is absolutely perfect for you.