Notsowidowme, 75

I'm kind, funny and intelligent. I like conversation and companionship. Looking for that certain someone. If we click would eventually like a LTR/poss marriage. (No living together without marriage.) Honesty and trust are very important to me. No drama or baggage on my part. I'm don't like prejudice or hate. Politics are middle to right. ENTJ if that means anything to you. (The J is borderline). Have a degree but am retired at this time. Don't care if you do or not. Was married for 25 plus years to blue collar fella. Learned to love having a partner and to respect men. Tastes in everything are eclectic but peculiar to me, of course. Give me the freedom to be me and you can be you. Like affection but enjoy breathing space also. Don't NEED someone, but would like to have someone to care about. If you laugh at (get) my jokes and treat me kindly, that goes a long way. I like pets but don't have one at this time. If you're intent on having someone really large, be forewarned I'd like to get back down to the mid 200's. Physically, I feel better there. I actually use a cane right now and I'm a bit embarrassed by it. I am bottom heavy. I joined this site to find someone who appreciates me for who I am. I love the beach and nature but I don't sail. Kind of like fishing, though.