Northernstarrrr, 49

BBW midwestern mom looking 4 a connection Hiya, I'm a midwestern, down to earth momma of 2, open minded, employed, in school, safe and sane. Haven't had much luck with relationships so I don't like to define one as such. Looking for a connection to start with, maybe more, depends on distance, time and a "spark". I enjoy children of course, like to stay busy, writing, reading, networking, anything outdoors really, have a great sense of humor and a passion for music/singing although the most I get out of that is karoake on occasion. I am not into the bar scene, don't drink, smoke or do drugs. I am allergic to cigarette smoke so please, do not smoke for my sake! I love animals and although I would love a houseful only have a few guinea pigs at the moment for the kids. Life is short. I don't believe in burning one's bridges, but not ruminating under them forever either. I'm not extremely picky about looks or anything but intelligence is a huge plus. I'm able to converse on a wide variety of topics and would prefer the ability for you to do so as well. Space for one another's own pursuits is also important. I will not push you away, but I do have my own life and expect that you will as well. Big, big heart here that has been trod on. Sensitivity is a plus but I enjoy a dominant man that likes to take control in the bedroom and do manly things like fix things around the house, open doors for me and tell me I am beautiful. In return you will be appreciated, respected, given massages and smiles, (I don't cook, sorry LOL), and many other aspects of an independant woman that enjoys her role on this planet as a woman and not someone that feels a need to assert herself within the feminist movement so many take up arms in these days. I am happy gal and simple in taste and pleasures. I'm pagan but don't care what you are as long as you are open minded. I'm running out of room here so hope to see a few replies. Take care.