Ladylazarus21, 45

so before i start sounding like a bumbling idiot like hugh grant, i would like to specify what i am looking for. i kinda just want to take things really slow because, rushing just ruins things. i am looking for a friend first and foremost. someone who is not afraid to be themselves, whether you are the biggest klutz in the world or is the biggest geek either. i am pretty much a geek myself in many ways. i like intelligent people, that seems to be the quality that is number one for me, but don't be pompous about it. i like someone who is sweet, open minded to many things. i would like to meet someone who has a joie de vive- someone who is happy to be alive and is willing try new experiences. sense of humor is very very important, don't take yourself to seriously and always be ready to laugh. my situation is quite complicated and i am very much afraid to be hurt. i don't want a friends things, as i am not your job and do not offer 401k. i love music, dancing, books, movies, knitting, cooking, hanging out with friends, and just do random stuff. i am 5'10, hispanic, dark brown hair, and eyes. if you want to know more, please feel free to contact me.