Katew, 46

Looking for someone interesting... I am a very direct person and I appreciate the same in others. My feelings are not easily hurt, so even if it is brutal, I like honesty. And I make a concerted effort to avoid drama! I like to joke around a lot, even if it is poking fun at myself or others. But I promise, it is always in good fun...I don't bite. While I do have a thick skin and am open to discussing almost anything, I also demand a certain level of mutual respect and fairness.

I am looking for somebody with a great sense of humor and a strong personality (aka: a backbone . I like people who have opinions, share them with me, and are open to mine, even if we don't agree...and with no hard feelings later. I am always willing to compromise, as long as it is truly a compromise. I am also looking for someone who has goals and dreams, whatever they may be. I think drive and ambition is extremely important in life.

Lastly, I want someone who likes me for me. I am a big girl with a big voice. I speak my mind, I am independent, I have curves and I am happy with myself. So I am hoping to meet someone who can handle all of that.