Jaydeamali, 49

I'm recently divorced and looking for someone to spend time with. I have two children and two cats. I love spending time with my kids, but I need adult company as well. I'm in university, so that eats up more of my time. Even then, I'm able to plan my activities well enough so that if I do meet someone through here, I'll definitely be able to have time to go out, or curl up with a good movie, or just hang out and talk.

I do tend to be a bit shy when I first meet people, but I do warm up after I feel comfortable. I guess you could say I'm a classic introvert.

I will say that I am currently a smoker, but I am trying to quit. I need someone who's not going to gripe about it, but provide positive support in my attempts to quit. So many have been unsuccessful due to gripes.

Well, I hope I haven't scared everyone off by now. I've had horrible luck on other sites to find even a friendly comment. :p