Irnursey, 59

Well Im a mother of 2 boys who live with me and a Nurse. I adore my kids and enjoy my job but have been single for a long time and think its time to venture out into the dating world again to see whats out there. I have a pretty outgoing personality but tend to be shyish until I know someone well. Im independant and sometimes stubborn but not unforgiving, I know when to back down. Im intelligent and look for that in a man, common sense is a plus too. My friends would say Im smart, funny and love to laugh. The things I look for in a guy are a nice smile, kindness, gentleness, humor, spine, character and a whimsy side. Someone who can stand alone and feel good about doing that, but can stand together with another and feel even better. Im not looking for perfection as I am far from that. Im looking for compatibility and complementary and comfortable. I want you to be you and what you represent for your life and allow me to do the same. Im not looking for a father for my kids, they have one, but a good role model and someone who cares for them and how they grow up is important to me. If you have kids Id hope to expect the same from you. At this point of our lives, we have had at least a few relationships, some good and some bad and Id hope we have an idea of who we want in our lives. Soooo... if anything you have read sounds promising and/or something your looking for too....hope to hear from you! B.