Happyunicorn, 56

This dating scene is very new to me, as in I haven't had that first date gittery, excited feeling since I was about 17.( DO NOT DO THE MATH ON THAT!} I was married for over 16 years and divorced for 6 now. I three Boys, ages 21, 16 and 12. I am proud to say my oldest is a sargeant in the Air Force, just recently home from overseas. My two youngest live with me, they are at the age now where they are discovering themselves and not relying on mom as much, SO I decided to start enjoying my life again. I am a very loving, patient, understanding woman, You need to talk, my ears are yours... I do not dole out my opinions or advice unless you want them, one thing I have learned is that sometimes you just want someone to listen. I too want the same, I do not expect a gentlemen to solve my problems for me. One of my favorite things is cuddling after making love ( or mind blowing sex, whichever is the mood) and talking about life. I have learned many lessons about relationships along the way, dos and donts, and they have made me a more understanding person. I am also very open and honest, with lovers, friends and my kids. As a parent, I want my boys coming to me with their questions and feeling comfortable in doing so, after all, they learn it somewhere and I would rather it be from me.
I am looking for someone to fill a few roles in my life, one, to be my friend, two, to look at me and see the beauty there, not the few flaws that make us human. Yes, I have some extra pounds, some good, some I hate! I do have some FINE attributes as well. I am a highly ------ person, after all that peak is at 40 supposedly. I would love someone that can indulge my whims and rock my world. I dont expect a free ride and a relationship is equal, in all respects. I am very forgiving, but DO NOT Lie TO ME. Material possesions are not important to me, as I have learned well that they can be gone in a blink of an eye. Any more you want to know send me a smile or an email.