Fuelfire74, 50

Looking for fun and maybe more. I'm a hard working and responsible man who looks at life optimistically and likes who I am.

I like Woman of all shapes and sizes, but generally prefer BBWs.

A few other things...

If you don't like yourself, please don't waste either of our time. I'm not saying you have to be vain, but if I compliment you and you think I'm an idiot or can't understand why, then you should be spending more time trying to find yourself than trying to find someone else. I'm not saying that you have to love everything about yourself....nobody does. I'm just saying that I want someone who sees some positives in herself. If you don't like you, then why should I, and vice versa.

And if you are miserable, then it isn't going to work. Everyone has a bad day, but if you can turn a holiday bad for everyone else, or if a broken heel or flat tire earns the same reaction as a flood or family member dying, then see above.

I know that those two things may sound harsh, but I don't want to waste my time or yours. It's not that I think these types of people are bad, just bad for me.

It's pretty simple, really. I just want to meet someone who is reasonably happy and likes themselves for the most part.