Frenchwench, 54

Lady looking for her Hero! I am looking for friends to begin with. If something else develops, wonderful. If not, at least I have a friend. I am not wanting to rush into anything. Any real committed relationship takes time to grow and be nurtured. I am a full time graduate student (online) working on my Master's in Forensic Psychology. I am a practicing pagan, and a paranormal researcher. I know that sound unusual and dark, but those things are a part of my life, not what defines my life. Politically, I am moderate and look at the candidate, not the party. I believe in getting to know someone based on who they are, how they think and feel, and how they treat those less fortunate, rather than judge them based on appearance or politics/religion. I have my ears pierced and would like to get my nose and bellybutton pierced eventually, and have no tattoos (yet). I prefer tall men, and a man with muscle and meat, rather than ultra thin. Nothing personal, it is just what makes me feel comfortable. I also have a tremendous weakness for soldiers, cops, firefighters, medics/rescue... . I want a man who speaks the truth, is willing to be patient, treats me like I matter, treats me like I'm intelligent, respects me and my friends, is kind and gentle, has a great sense of humor, is willing to embrace life, loves animals, acts like a gentleman when necessary and a bad boy when possible. He doesn't do drugs, doesn't drink to excess, and doesn't smoke. He also does not want children (or more children) since I cannot have them. He works hard to earn my love and respect, and expects absolutely no less from me.