
I'm well-traveled, well-read, and while I've been described as many things, boring has never been one of them. I'm a passionate person and that has served me well both professionally and personally (though I do wish I could find the right man with whom I could share it.) My personality type is INTJ (aka the Mastermind) on the Myers-Briggs test. Apparently less than 1% of females have this personality type, so I can officially call myself a strange chick.

I'm looking for something real. Someone who wants to spend time with me. Someone who won't assume I can be ignored because I happen to be competent enough to handle things on my own. Someone who is kind, generous with his time, and looking to build something over time. Who takes personal responsibility seriously -- and manages not to let it suck all the fun out of life at the same time.
Oh, and while I don't expect a man to gush about his emotions on a daily basis or anything like that, at a certain point in a relationship, I do expect a fully functional male human being to be capable of expressing his emotions on occasion. If you find that too demanding, save us both the trouble and keep looking! (Did I mention I also have a tendency to be rather blunt?)
And if you've made it this far, I'll throw this in for good measure: I have a tough exterior, but I also have a vulnerable (perhaps even submissive) side in search of an audience. (For obvious reasons I choose to be very selective about the audience for that side of my personality. And just to be clear those who demand to see it never will.) I'm hightechchic on the big Y.