Dreamseeker4u, 51

i'm overweight and i'm large, but i'm not huge. i think that a person should be judged on their personality before anything else though. our personalities are what makes us the person that we are. also, even though a person's personality is the most important looks do matter some. also, if you're not between the ages of 47 and 58 don't bother emailing me! i'm tired of you young guys emailing me and men with no pictures of their face on their profile. most of you young guys aren't very mature and aren't ready for a real relationship or a longterm relationship. i'm not interested in any young man. i definitely want a man who judges me mostly on my personality because that's the most important thing about a person. how would you feel if you gained weight and people judged you on your weight instead of who you were as a person? trust me, it wouldn't be a very good feeling. several years ago i used to not only be skinny, but i was very toned up. as we all get older though we change some in different ways. our personalities pretty much stay the same as we get older, but our metabolism gets slower and if we're not that active of a person we also gain weight. some people gain more weight than a lot of other people because they're not capable of doing that much to stay thin. different conditions and different injuries are a couple of these reasons. people should definitely be judged on their personality and not how they look, how active that they are, or what they can and can't do. we are all capable of love, loving someone, and that should be what matters the most. if you talk to a person for awhile and get along with them you may find out that the two of you have some chemistry and you want to know more about them.