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TRUEGEMM LOOKING FOR HER SOULMATE MY IDEAL MAN

Almost every unmarried woman from the age of 14 has a list of what they call an ideal man and someone they will like to meet in their future. This list can be mental or written down that a man has to meet to be "The One".

My ideal man is someone of intelligence, respectability, honesty, patience, and faithfulness. This man has the ability to encourage, forgive, and love. He must be consistent, responsible, generous, brave, and strong...

A man who is "real" in my eyes...should be someone who loves God with all his heart, mind, and soul...and doesn't judge your mate because she worships differently.... Must truly understand there is one God and we reach out to him in different ways....and must respect her beliefs...

Someone who will want to go fishing with my dad, if he was still alive or my son,

Someone who will want to lie in bed on a Saturday and hold me if I need to be held,

Someone who will offer to dry my mom's dishes, if she needed them done,

Someone who will laugh and dance in the rain or snow and truly enjoy it because we're doing it together...,

Someone who wil read poetry to me outloud or sing in my ear even if he's a horrible singer and can't sing...,

Someone who will not be afraid to argue with me, and say he's sorry if he is wrong....and will not go to bed without kissing me goodnite...,

Someone who will accept my apology when I am wrong...which might be alot for him...and still love me enough to forgive and put it behind...,

Someone who loves and respects his mother and who will be or is an excellent father...,

Someone who will still dance and hold my hand when we're eighty years old.....,

Someone who can give more than I do to make the relationship a success...because we're not perfect......working at both your needs and compromising is what makes your relationship perfect....!

My list could go on and on forever. Many single men and women are out there trying to find this perfect mate..