David1956, 66

I am a 50 y/o attached but lonely male in Maine. I have salt & pepper hair, blue eyes and average body. I would like to have a "friends first" relationship and if mutual feelings and trust develop, a more intimate relationship. As far as I am concerned, there is no woman too large to be appealing. Ancient figurines show the standard of beauty was the ssbbw. When we became more "civilized" and as men establishd power, the standard of beauty became very thin - just the upposite of the ssbbw. Us men who admire the abundance of the ssbbw's figure are uncovering feelings of attraction which have been hidden/repressed for 10,000 years. While I risk being too much of an intellectual here, I have uncovered this attraction. Being lonely in my current relationship is magnified by unfulfilled attraction. I do not want the reader here to think I do not value the ssbbw's personality as much as her physical beauty. Indeed, beauty is deeper than the physical surface of a person. I hope our deeper characteristics add to mutual enjoyment, trust, respect and admiration. I also hope you will feel free to e-mail me. If you have read this far, I would think we could be good for each other.