I'm looking for just one smart, funny, decent and relatively self-aware guy who wants to date and see what happens. I read a lot, I'm a little geeky when I get really interested in something, and I'm a liberal fish in a very very conservative pond. I like listening to and learning about music, from bluegrass to old soul classics, and my favorite band plays 100 mph but still has beautiful lyrics -- ask me who it is.
Beaches are my favorite places in the world, although I love the mountains, too. I'm most in my element at the beach, though.
I'm not looking for a father, a child, or someone to pay my bills, and I don't want to be a mother (except to my actual daughter, heh), a daughter or to take care of anyone else -- spoil, yes... take care of, no. Know what I mean? I want someone who wants me, not someone who needs me.
I'm pretty open-minded, so about the only dealbreakers I can think of would be if you're a racist, sexist, have no sense of humor, or if you lack kindness or decency. Just about anything else would depend on the person, I think.
