Caramelme, 40

Simply put, i'm just a man who works hard.. I love working with and helping others, but its worth every minute of fun and stress. I would love to find someone to help me explore Syracuse and the things to do fun in the city. When im not working you can find me at an open mic, comedy show, the gym, on a bike trail,on a beach, watching sports, basically enjoying myself. I love all types of music. My radio presets are slow jams, rap, country, Latin music, and rock. I am a poet. I've been writing for awhile now. I am at my open mic every Tuesday night enjoying myself. I work-out a lot. I used to play college football and have worked hard to lose all of my weight from my playing days naturally. I love the gym and try to get in the gym a few times a week. I work very hard, so I play even harder so that it evens out. I'm looking for something real, lasting, special, pretty much the type of thing when im 89 and losing it, all I will do is tell stories of how I "courted" my soul mate lol

I want a woman who can challenge me when her thoughts differ from mine. I'm looking for someone who can make me smile. The first thing I notice about a woman is her eyes and smile, honestly!!! I'm more into the small things that last a lifetime. I'm looking for someone who knows when to have fun and when to be serious, I'm looking for someone to compliment what i think is a great young man. Are you interested in taking a Learning more? If so, Contact me.

What I look look for:
*I prefer a great conversation over a low neck line.
*Im looking for a woman who values herself.
*Who can think for herself who can challenge me when her thoughts differ from mine!
*I'm looking for someone who can make me smile. A woman who can do that will win me over no problem.
*The first thing I notice about a woman is her eyes and smile. They can tell you all you need to know about a person.
*I'm looking for someone who knows when to have fun and when to be serious.