Cap1004, 69

Searching for the Long Term 54 yo caucasion BBW is searching for a long term trusted male companion. Hopefully fun and friends first, and more after that.
I am a competent and confident professional who works hard and enjoys time to relax. Relaxation can take many forms and is often defined by the chemistry of the couple involved!
I am quality. And I want quality in a man. Trustworthiness, honesty, open communication, common sense, sense of humor, a desire to go for the humor in most situations, and the drive to work things through.
I very much enjoy music, photography, high definition television, crime shows (real and fictitious), educational shows, humorous movies, dancing, playing some games on the computer, dining out occasionally, cooking a good meal now and again with an appreciative partner, DJing (yes, I DJ on an online streaming station), researching and finding more and more music, pets/animals, canoeing . . . and probably much more!
Please, I am NOT looking to meet a man and jump into bed. I can do that about any time. I want a relationship. So please, if going to bed within the first few dates is your main concern, move right along. I have been this clear previously only to have the man immediately seek instant intimacy. And I shove them right out the door and out of my life.
Is S-- important? YES. But long-lasting relationships are not made on a roll in the sack.
Yes, I am quite independent. So, I don't need a daddy-type or someone to swoosh in and take over my affairs. But I sure would like someone in my life to share everything with.
Is it you?