Brightgirl4u, 58

My friends would say I am awesome, genius, & a good catch (& I pay them well to say these things). Seriously, I am kind, sweet, funny, fun-loving, and curious about the world around me. Currently I am working to finish a Ph. D.! I am good to the men in my life. You can ask them! I am a fiercely faithful friend! I am comfortable with who I am, actually I like who I am. I am reasonable, logical, and can still find something to laugh at daily! I have varied interests, get bored easy, and know how to do a lot of things!
I am looking for someone true, dependable, honest, fun-loving, laid-back, with a dose of wanting adventure and excitement. They want to have a serious committed relationship in time...not rushing here...just saying.
My ideal match would be someone I am comfortable with...doesn't live in a hut in somewhere in Africa and is doing this only for a green card or money! Someone who balances my perfectionist tendencies by being relaxed & easy going, then I can relax. Someone who could be friends first & then man-up for the long haul if things are right. I would like someone with a compatible sense of humor because one's sense of humor may not be another's way. Someone who is huggable. Some who can stand by my side, & be proud of it, because I feel complete already. Basically, someone who would look at me each day as if it were the first day they saw me so I could return the favor. I believe in deep love where the other person knows they are loved.
And I wish people would notice that I usually mean what I say...Often, because I don't raise my voice or say something in passing, it is not taken seriously. That I am playful, but can be serious when the situation warrants.