Bodicegoddess, 57

I am looking for a nut to crack me out of my shell I'm in the process of discovering myself. I've been widowed for three years and think I'm finally ready to date again. I have spent so long trying to be what everyone else has wanted or needed me to be, and I have been confined by the limitations others have placed on me. I am now in a place where I am embracing ME. I am a practicing witch,and accepting my true value is a big part of that. the mother of two amazing teenagers who happen to be special needs and much of my life has been dedicated to them. I am an animal lover, an excellent cook, and I have discovered that I can have an adventurous streak when I feel like it! I am here looking for a real man who will support my desire to be myself, to be my friend, to be a partner in life, and not someone to take over for me. I prefer men who are emotionally stable, healthy,(I watched my late husband slowly kill himself and I won't do that again), who wants me far more than needs me. I want to find someone who respects me and my kids. I also want someone who will want the same from me.I learned that I deserve much more than I've ever gotten, and at least equal to what I've always given. My new motto is "Never make someone a priority when, to him you are merely an option." Message me and let's see if there is that special something for both of us!