Blacklily, 59

sisterly affection seeks brotherly love i am not the voice of all women but i am a woman with a voice. it has been said that it's the physical beauty that catches a man's attention, but it's the inner beauty that makes him stay for good...at that i laugh. alot of men are looking at me but none of you want to get to know me better (why) could it be you are not interested because i have not posted any S-- kitten photos of myself? grow-up
a woman of substance conducts her life with honesty and integrity.
i am a human being, not a religion, not a job description, not a color, not a nationality, but a person.
i am a multidimensional being. to those who dont know me, i am unexplored terrain, territory yet to be discovered, quirks, mannerisms, peeves, and interests yet to be shared. i have a story, a history and a testimony that will never be heard by those who choose to distance me because of my size, and will never be heard by those who treat me less than human because there am more of me to love. i am not your homey,lover,buddy...
i am seeking someone that is capable of having a lasting and meaningful relationship, someone with a happy, confident and well-adjusted nature and disposition. i care about building a firm relationship with my boyfriend/fiance/husband, not a shallow relationship based on first-attraction feelings. i know that love is built through the hard and good times, and i do not quit when things get rough. i have a peaceful nature, loving disposition, tolerant quality and trustworthiness.
i own virtues that make others around me notice that i am not shallow. i dont just have knowledge about makeup or hairstyles, but knowledge about subjects of interest to others. a woman of substance will educate herself fully about current issues. she will know about crises and concerns within her city, state and nation. she will want to take action to do all she can to help, whether by writing a letter to the editor or running for office.