Biggirl53, 71

I am an attractive, thick African-American woman who is scared of running out of time to meet and marry the last love of her life. My more bounce to the ounce gives me a loving, comforting appearence that belies a strong spirit and a wry wit. I've taken on all that life has thrown my way and like Elton John has sung..."I'm still standing!" I write fiction, draw(although not in years), a Pisces to the bone, I enjoy good food, intelligent conversation, football and ice hockey of the 70'sm classical music and Kahlua/cream. My addictions are art museums, flea markets, Tommy Lee Jones, dark, semi-sweet chocolate, Law and Order and Mystery Science Theater 3000. Smooth jazz, Patsy Cline, and Steely Dan are in my cd player, Full Metal Jacket, Once Were Warriors and Muppets From Space are in my dvd.During my teens, I had always expected to find my mythical hero to marry and live happily ever after with. In my 20's I sought out my soulmate...my Zen partner. After experiencing marriage and motherhood in my 30's, and having to deal with the aftermath of divorce, I wanted to find my Mr. Right, knowing that after all these years I had finally realized what I wanted in a man. Well, reality crept in, and time marched on. There are no Zen partners or Mr. Rights out there...but there are some regular, decent, honest guys who are also looking for sincere, monogamous relationships. If you're out there...ET, phone home! My preference for an interracial relationship is just that...my preference. To me, age is simply a number, just not be in the Pampers or Depends demographic. Time and experience has diminished my tolerance for BS, so you won't need to furnish a smooth 'line' to get my attention!