Bandanagyrl, 42

I am spontaneous. Capable of planning something (and in fact love to host things) but most of my best ideas are things I suddenly want to do and required little planning. I have decided to go away for the weekend during breakfast on Saturday morning and those are often the best trips.

I am energetic and chatty but I am a good listener and I love to learn. I am a dog lover and I have a corgi who is super sweet and does not run wild biting and mauling but does have own her own life jacket.

I am looking for a man. Hmmm - this may be a little vague so let me clarify a little. I don't want someone who is constantly in crisis. I don`t have time for games and really dislike drama. Life has enough natural drama in it - we don`t really need to seek it out and add to it. And everyone has issues in their life but it`s how you deal with it that makes the difference.

I want someone who is smart and able to carry on a conversation. Someone who is loyal not only to me but to anyone they care about. And last but certainly not least someone with a sense of humour.

Ok maybe a few warnings now. I have no sense of direction and get lost easily. On the plus side I am big on directions and not afraid to ask someone how to exit IKEA if I get off the blue arrows. (I try to stay on the arrows at all costs!)

My favourite snack is peanut M&M's. Is this a warning - perhaps.......