Baishofspades, 47

I am a 31 year old independent woman with a mind of my own. I love life, and I love nothing more than laughing and having a (sometimes rowdy!) good time. Blessed to have a wonderful family and group of friends. I have a very young spirit, but I take care of and provide for myself. Looking for love (eventually) like everyone else, with a man who is all grown up and very sure of WHO HE IS and WHAT HE WANTS. I am fun-loving and laid back, but I have a very low tolerance for BS. Constantly amazed at life's intricacies and all the surprises just waiting to happen.

Personal "getting-to-know-you" stuff: i have black hair (ok, it's dyed!), blue eyes, some tattoos... oldest of 2 girls. My family is very sweet and important to me. My family comes mostly from the South, but I was born here in California... I guess I could go on, but if you have any questions, go for it! Can't hurt to ask...