Ariellemb, 36

Let's face it, I don't live the life of a rock-star or famous athlete ... but are their lives really great anyway?Â
It sure would make writing this more entertaining, and reading it would be much more fun too. I could tell you about all the exotic cities and expensive hotels I've stayed at while being on tour. All the parties, clubs, alcohol and drugs ... it would make for a much more interesting read.Â

Maybe the rock-star lifestyle would be fun, but I don't want to live that life and a guy that's looking for that is not for me.

While my story might not be Rolling Stone worthy, I do work hard, pay my bills, enjoy the company of my friends & family ... while enjoying myself like I was a rock-star on tour.

Well, not really. Heh.Â

God, family and friends are most important to me in life. I've learned that money and opportunities come and go, but God, friends and family are always there to help you when you need it. I hope one day I can pass down those qualities to a family of my own, and it's why I work so hard today.

Here's a handy guide to interacting with me.

1.Be yourself, whatever that is. If I can't handle it, you'll know if I run away screaming.

2. Be honest. I'd prefer to know ahead of time so I can help you hide the bodies. So to speak.Â

3. Be willing to be honest about expectations. I'm looking for someone for a long term relationship, with marriage and family as a possible goal. If you are not seeking same, then I'm not the person you should message.

4. Be willing to have fun.Â

5. Be smart enough to know that genital pictures and/or asking me for a booty call are a turn off and will get you shunned.Â

6. Be willing to consider a big burly beard. Beards on men are tres smexy.

I fully don't expect you to message me. Unfortunately real, honest BBW girls like me often get passed over because we don't stand out among the hundreds on dating sites that are fashionably thin and hot. But if you're one of the few that are reading this to actually meet