Aphrogirl2002, 54

Will you have my back the way I will have yours? Don't let the title fool you! While I certainly miss being in a relationship, I'd rather remain single than to "settle." Remaining true to my vision of what I'm seeking in a mate is of the upmost importance to me. I bring a lot to the table, therefore, I'm looking for a man who can reciprocate this.

With all of that being said...

I am as real as they come from Day 1. Imperfect, attractive, African American, busty, apple shapped, SSBBW. I'm Sane, Educated, Compassionate, Down-to-earth, Funny, D&D0 Free, gainfully employed, family-oriented and monogamous. I love spending quiet times at home, movies, cultural events, comedy clubs, and thrift stores. I am a social drinker (beer) and do not smoke. I can be quiet/reserved in the initial stages of meeting someone, but tend to warm up quickly.

I am looking for a long term relationship, but understand that it shouldn't be rushed. My ideal partner is communicative, honest, hardworking, unattached, D&D free, a non smoker, single (separated doesn't count in my book) and is not looking to play games... I am not interested in being used or added to your rolodex of options...

Race is not an important factor in my search but I'd like to find someone between the ages of 35 and 50.