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Large BBW In Need Of A Strong Man What I'm looking for is simple really, a man. I am ready and want to be somebody's woman! I want to be fully consumed in him. I want the world to stop when he calls or instructs me to do something. Don't get me wrong, I'm not looking for someone to dominate me or be my master. That would be a total negative! I have my own mind and am very opinionated. I am, however, ready to be in a committed relationship, where my man takes control as the man, which is how it should be. I want someone who is strong, aggressive, passionate, has a since of humor, is kind and shows humility.

I also want someone to take the lead for a while. I've had to be the leader so much in my personal life and my professional life, till I just want to be told what to do at times. You tell me what to eat, you tell me what we are gonna watch on television and you know what?... Tell me what I should wear as well.

Yes, I know that no one is perfect and I am far from it. However, if one were to ask me what I would consider to be the makings of my perfect man (and again, I know no one is perfect, but I can wish can't I!) he would be a combination of the following men:

Heathcliff Huxtable (The Cosby Show), because of his sense of humor and love for his family.

Charles Ingles (Little House on the Prairie), because of his strong faith in God and unwavering passion for his family, that man would go down fighting for his God and family!

Sidney Poitier (Movie Actor), because he is so damn smooth and cool and I love his hands, oh how I love long slender fingers!

Cary Grant (Movie Actor), because of how articulate, suave and debonair he was and yes that was a fine white man, gorgeous!

And finally, Taye Diggs (Movie Actor) because of his chiseled good looks, however, let it be noted looks are merely an add on. I would very much prefer loyalty and common sense.