Me! I am a small town sweet girl who loves life. People tell me that I am witty, silly, and all around genuine person. Which is what I am looking for, another genuine person who knows what they want and know how to go after it! I am a college student who is working on getting her Masters in Education, hoping to be an elementary school teacher.
I am your average BBW, I have medium length strawberry blonde hair and big blue eyes. My best features are my eyes, they change colors depending on my mood!
I am looking for someone who is genuine, funny, smart, and all around good guy. I am very affectionate, so I love to show my affection and hope it is return. I would prefer someone closer to home, but it's not a deal breaker if you are not.
Abayj, 36
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All, VA, USA
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Me!
About Me
Gender
Female
Orientation
Straight
Height
5'03"
Weight
220 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
writing, video games, television, reading, photography, music, movies, internet, computers, cooking & recipes
Body Type
thick, large, voluptuous, pleasantly plump, overweight
Movies
action, romantic comedy, romance, drama, comedy
Orientation
straight, bisexual
Eye Color
blue
Hair Color
red, light brown, blond
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Relationship
single - never married
Have Kids
no - maybe with the right person
Education Level
currently in college
Profession
Education / Academic Research
Income level
Less than $25,000
Do you smoke?
no - open to dating smokers though
Do you drink?
socially
I currently live
with parents
Socially, I am
better in small groups, shy at first, but warm up quickly, flirt
Political Views
liberal, democrat
Food Related
Italian, Comfort, Chinese
Personality
romantic, conservative, flirt, geek, intellectual, introvert, liberal, preppy
Religious Views
Agnostic
I'm looking for
conversation, dating, friends only, mr. right, mr. right now, relationship, romance, the yin to my yang, something interesting, soulmate
My Sign
sagittarius : nov. 22-dec. 21
Pets
Dog
Gender
Female
Music
Progressive Rock, Pop, Country
Looking for
Hobbies & Interests
comic books, computers, cooking & recipes, cosplay, cycling, dancing, gardening, hunting, internet, killing zombies, larp, manga, mime, movies, music, naturism, photography, reading, running, shopping, sports, surfing, swimming, target practice, television, travel, video games, weather, wine tasting, working out, writing, yoga
Their Body Type
a few extra pounds, athletic, average, bodybuilder, disabled, fat and proud, fit, large, overweight, pleasantly plump, skinny, slender, slim, thick, voluptuous
Movies
action, bollywood, comedy, drama, horror, indie, nothing but porn, romance, romantic comedy, sci-fi
Orientation
bisexual, celibate, straight
Eye Color
black, blue, brown, glass, gray, green, hazel
Hair Color
a little gray, auburn, bald, black, blond, dark brown, depends on the day of the week, light brown, red, white / gray
Their Ethnicity
African American, Asian, Caucasian, Hispanic / Latino, Indian, Inter-racial, Middle Eastern, Mixed Race, Native American, Other, Pacific Islander, Vulcan
Relationship
committed, open relationship, separated, single - never married
Have Kids
no - definitely want them though, no - do not want kids, no - maybe with the right person
Their Education Level
college grad, currently in college, high school grad, post-Graduate, some college
Profession
Artistic / Musical / Writer, Banking / Financial Services / Real Estate, Clerical / Administrative, Computer related / Hardware, Construction / Craftsman, Education / Academic Research, Entertainment / Media, Executive / Management, Fashion Industry / Modeling / Beauty, Food Service, Hospitality / Travel, Internet, Legal Services, Manufacturing / Distributions, Medical / Health Services, Other, Politics / Goverment / Military, Sales / Marketing, Technical / Science / Engineering, Transportation / Trucking
Do they smoke?
chain smoker, daily, like a chimney, only when I drink, socially
Do they drink?
no, only blood, socially
They currently live
alone, family and friends visit often, in a van down by the river, on a pirate ship, there is a party every night, with a significant other, with an insignificant other, with kids, with parents, with pets, with roommate(s)
Socially, they are
a couch potato, anti-social, better in small groups, comic relief, flirt, home body, loner, shy at first, but warm up quickly, side kick, social butterfly, the life of the party
Political Views
conservative, democrat, green party, independent, liberal, libertarian, ndp - the new democratic party (canada), not interested in politics, progressive, reform party, republican, socialist, the conservative party (canada), the conservative party (uk), the labour party (uk), the liberal democrats (uk), the liberal party (canada)
Food Related
BRAINS!!!, Carnivore, Chinese, Chocoholic, Comfort, Eat Out Frequently, Fast Food, Fine Dining, French, Gluten-free Diet, Indian, Italian, Japanese, Junk Food Junkie, Lactose Intolerant (am I sharing too much?), Omnivore, Raw, Soul Food, Spicy, Sushi, Vegan, Vegetarian
Personality
activist, burner (burning man participant), conservative, extrovert, fashionista, flirt, fun loving, geek, intellectual, introvert, jock, liberal, loner, lover, nerd, pirate, playa, playa hater, preppy, professional, punk, redneck, romantic, total slacker, tree hugger, type a, white trash
Individuality
beard, goatee, mime, piercings, pirate at heart, psychic, tattoos, vampire
Religious Views
Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist, Catholic, Christian, Deist, Hindu, Jewish, Not Religious, Not Religious, but Spiritual, Pagan, Pantheist, Scientology, Wiccan
They are looking for
conversation, dating, friends only, miss right, miss right now, penpal, relationship, romance, something REALLY hot, soulmate, the yin to my yang
Their Sign
aquarius : jan. 20–feb. 18, aries : march 21–april 19, cancer : june 21–july 22, capricorn : dec. 22–jan. 19, gemini : may 21-june 20, i was born in april, i was born in august, i was born in december, i was born in february, i was born in january, i was born in july, i was born in june, i was born in march, i was born in may, i was born in november, i was born in october, i was born in september, leo : july 23–aug. 22, libra : sept. 23–oct. 22, pisces : feb. 19–march 20, sagittarius : nov. 22–dec. 21, scorpio : oct. 23–nov. 21, taurus : april 20–may 20, virgo : aug. 23–sept. 22
Military Service
navy, reserves, air force, army, coast guard, marines, national guard
Gender
Male
Music
Alternative Rock, Bluegrass, Celtic, Chamber, Choir, Classical, Country, Dance, Death Metal, Folk, Gospel, Hard Rock, Hardcore, Heavy Metal, Hip Hop, House, Indie, Industrial, Jazz, Jazz-Fusion, Karaoke, Metal, Motown, Opera, Pop, Post Rock, Progressive Rock, Punk, R and B, Rap, Rock, Screamo, Techno, Trance
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